Who are you afraid of???

Ola All,
I hope all of you are happy.
I hope everyone is doing fine.
Still you will have something pricking in back of your mind, something which keeps you from doing things what you want to do? Where it comes from, how it affects us is quite different from person to person. However it affects us all. There are different names to it, the most common name we give is course of life. I believe it is the natural resistance to change the state we are in. This is why we miss most of the good things in life. A simple e.g. is you might have like architecture but you end up doing computer engineering, because people told you it is safe and it is the way of life. This is the very reason why we do not take chances with our lives. We do not do anything we want to but we do what is preached by common wisdom. Now this is a major difference between the people who are successful and people who manage well. At the end you may regret the decision you took that made your life simple but not the one which you ever dreamt of. Girls are the primary victim of this. They rely on this common wisdom which kills the life they want to live. I do not preach that you go and do insane things. However before you opt or do something give a thought of what are you doing and why. Simply refusing the offers that come in your life is no good. Have a thorough reasoning. Sometimes the best offers comes in bad package. Think before you act, as at times there are more than your life which will be changed or will be at stake. Give it a chance, give it a shot. After all you live only once? What you got to loose? Who are you afraid of?

Life in Rewind

Hi All or as I say Ola all,

I was just thinking how good would it be if we had a rewind button in life as we have in video, cd/dvd et.al, or better an undo button as in MS word/Notepad. One of the most familiar applications PC has ever seen. How do we wish that we could all just go back and do the thing a little different way than we did. How amazing it would have been. As it does not happens we feel how unforgiving life is. I saw the video of Enigma "Return to Innocence" and I suddenly felt the need for the rewind button.
How many times you had wished that you should have said or not have said the things that you wanted to or not intended to. However this is a dream that will never be realized as of today. Maybe someday in future it may be. However that day till now has not happened or has not been seen yet. So all we can do is wish for it.
I believe everything present here is for a reason and is in balance with some other entity. So I figured out if we had this rewind button what would have been the case today. To my horror I realized that this rewind button in life might have spoilt the beauty of life. Seems strange, but just think of this. How would you live if you know what your life is for say next 10 hours? It would be predictable. When things are predictable then we do not care.
This care is the essence of bonding and all the emotion we feel or perceive. This makes the place we live beautiful. Moreover if you know how to improve things, then maybe you may redo it so many times that you may never go ahead of that point... So you might be stuck in a painful process. The net result might be that you would be unhappier than you are.
So what we should do. I think it is best to enjoy and feel every moment. As we know there will be never the same moment again, we will see it is precious. So next time you see your loved one or a close friend or even a distant one, stop and be thankful for that moment, appreciate it, cherish it and do not take it for granted as this moment may never come again and Life will never go in Rewind... You have it today this time, seize it before it is lost forever and you are stuck in this feeling if I had one more choice or if I had a rewind button...

Have a nice moment :)

Start of Something: My first time first Blog

Hi to All
This is my first blog.
As every first blog, this too is written to see what I can write, how does it feels to write and more over what do I write. This is first step for me into the vast unknown, a place with possibilities both good and bad, kind of walking in unknown. Now there is bit of excitement, fear and all kinds of mixed emotion that is attached to every first time of things you do. Like my friend said "Everyman will have a first job only once in his life" A remarkably true and a utterly obvious statement. Still this statement has a significance. It stresses the importance of the first time. Every first time is very special as it once in a life moment. This is the reason that makes it special. Moreover it the has never been done by you before which makes it extra ordinary. Whew I never myself knew first time was so much. I guess this enough for the first time for the first blog entry I have written. I wish myself a long and happy blogging now since I do not have anyone else here to wish me :). Later maybe some of you who happen to read it may find something to wish me for. Now I will get out of this ecstasies first time happiness to real world where I reside. Goodbye and have a good day.